Lyl had to come to terms with letting go; to accept that loving is not why we cling, but desperation. Our own insecurity and lack drives us to hold on to that which has pulled away. We need someone, so they become our obsession, our place of safety, even though the tighter we hold on, the worse our existence truly becomes.
And that is the great deception; that someone else can fulfill the hole within our own beings, and that we only can know true security with them, when in actuality, this is a full delusion, and quite contrary to the truth.
And yet, we cling to other people, voraciously, telling ourselves we are being faithful, that we aren't giving up, that it is because we are in love. Denial, is the real reason most people keep trying in a relationship that has ended, or that should.
Lyl has ended more than one unhealthy relationship here, and unfortunately, none of it because she desired it to be, but more, because her obsessing forced the severing.
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